Life is not a fairytale but It's okay to be a hopeless romantic

Okay,  So this is my first blog and it is the wee hours of the morning and I am pretty sure a lot of people are asleep but hey...it's whatever. So this blog is titled :Life is not a fairytale but It's okay to be a hopeless romantic. I am about to mind fuck all of you teenage girls who think that life is a fairytale and that everything is all peachy keen when it really is not! America has put out this idea that Love is just like the movies, books, and songs that these entertainers put out. When it really is not like that, life is real, it is not reality TV, this is not Jersey Shore or The Notebook, it is exactly what you make of it. Life is what you write it out to be. I am pretty sure you are in a relationship, if you aren't then you want to be in one right? The type of relationship where you see your man all the time all day everyday and send him lovey dovey texts of sweet nothings right? Well when it comes to real life, sometimes things can't be like that. Why your asking? Because your fuckin smothering him! (If you cant take the heat, get out of the kitchen.) Trust me, I did this but it took for my mom to tell me just to leave it alone. Another point I want to hit is this, being CODEPENDENCY. What does that mean, well let me school you and take you to Webster so he can tell you. CO-DE-PEN-DEN-CY noun:

: a psychological condition or a relationship in which a person is controlled or manipulated by another who is affected with a pathological condition (as an addiction to alcohol or heroin); broadly : dependence on the needs of or control by another. YOU DON'T NEED A MAN TO BE HAPPY it is just like you don't need a cigarette! Or you don't need to go shopping. Being in a relationship is not a necessity, it is more like apart of life if you love that person. I see on facebook how girls go from being in a relationship to single more than they probably change their panties! It is craziness I tell ya! I had to learn this the hard way, don't put all of your energy into a relationship and don't lose yourself. Because that hole that you are digging will just get deeper and it will be hard to get out when you bump your head and realize your messing up. Now life is not like movies...it really isn't. You may want it to be but the sooner you realize that...the sooner you will be STRONG! That way you can endure anything. BUT there is absolutely nothing wrong with being a hopeless romantic. Now I know your probably like "oh this girl is a hypocrite!" I'm not it is just it took me long to realize it is cool to be a hopeless romantic but not be dumb about shit. For you girls who have no idea what being a hopeless romantic let me explain. This person is in love with love. They believe in fairy tales and love. They're not to be confused as stalkers or creepy because that's not what a hopeless romantic is. All hopeless romantics are idealists,the sentimental dreamers,the imaginative and the fanciful when you get to know them. They often live with rose colored glasses on. They make love look like an art form with all the romantic things they do for their special someone. So be smart ladies! And...WRAP IT UP! AND SLOW DOWN! AND.....MAZAL TOV!!!!!!! LMAO