***ATTENTION*** Before you read this just know I am not racist in any way shape or form, I am just blogging about a conversation I was recently involved in.
I heard an interesting convo the other night. I wanted to do a blog about it because I know there are other people in the world who may have had this conversation. How its okay for white women to use men and suck them dry (money wise) <PERVERTS! BUT if an African American woman does it she is a gold digger and a hoe. what makes that right? The man of the conversation was put in a very difficult position because he babbled all about this. I am all for women being independent and having their own shit because there is nothing a man can take from you when you have your own. And I am pretty sure men think it is sexy as hell when a woman has her own. However, I have been in Atlanta for a while now and I see a lot of women using men for their money. Whether it is in a club or at the mall, she will not pay for she wants. The whole thing is, in Americas eyes when a black woman uses a man for his money, whether it is to go out to dinner or to go shopping she is automatically considered a hoe and a gold digger. Why I ask? Maybe because all you see on TV is video vixens and how men glorify women with big asses and play into buying them whatever they want. As soon as she slips up...she is being called a gold digger and a hoe. HOWEVER, when a white woman does the same exact thing it is okay? No, if anything she is a gold digger as well. I am sorry, but this is how I feel. The only difference is the white women act like they are in love with the men and possibly brainwash them. lol All I am saying is, why is it okay for a woman of another race to date a man and use him for his cash but when a black woman does it...she is a gold digger? This is confusing. It is all the same, black, white, purple, or even red there is no difference when it comes to "gold digging". In Kanye West song "Gold digger" he talks about this topic, how she may not be a gold digger but she doesn't mess with no broke dudes. Even in one point of the song he said "Now I ain't saying you're a gold digger you got needs You don't want your dude to smoke but he can't buy weed You got out to eat and he cant pay you all can't leave There's dishes in the back, he gotta roll up his sleeves But why you all washing watch him He gone make it into a Benz out of that Datson He got that ambition baby look in his eyes This week he mopping floors next week it's the fries So, stick by his side I know his dude's balling but yeah that's nice And they gone keep calling and trying But you stay right girl But when you get on he leave your ass for a white girl" I think this part is funny at the end about the white girl because although a guy may go to a white woman, she is going to do the same thing. I believe that this whole "using" thing is not the young woman's fault BUT it is the medias fault and possibly parenting. I see how there are so many video vixens who do this (white and black), and although I love Amber Rose she is lightweight doing the same thing. And I know you are wondering why I said parenting, I said it because some girls have mothers who drill it into their heads that it is okay for her to use a man and that she doesn't have to do anything. That is a major key point in this blog because there have even been TV shows about how women train their daughters to be dependant on men. THAT SUCKS!!!! Ladies, go to school and get on the right path. Don't believe all of the hype on gold digging and what you see because I am sure that most of the men who blow their money on expensive things are wanting a lil sum sum in return. Even if you watch this Kanye West video, you will see how there is only one white woman in the video. All the rest of them are black women, like the video was directed to us...this is just my opinion but I think that white women could have been in the video a little more because they use men too. I cant stand how the world is...like it is only okay for white women to use men for their money but it is a different story with black women. I think that people should take a step back and look at this as a whole picture...not just white and black. Maybe women should just go to school and graduate and show men that they do not need their money. Because again...women do rule the world. But lets not give men the upper hand...I'm pretty sure there have been plenty of women who have fallen victim to using a man and he wants something in return...that sounds like a sticky situation. Have a blessed day, and ladies...BE SOMEONES MOTIVATION!!!!
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