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Friday, July 1, 2011

First Kiss? No Biggie!!!!

When I had my first kiss I thought it was kind of special, it didn't have any specific meaning but to some young ladies the first kiss is pure innocence meeting love and explosion. I am here to give you 5 tips that will drive your guy bonkers and wanting more!!! The perfect kiss is all about two things: Connection and comfort. No matter how much you are into your dude, kissing can be the most awkward thing to engage in. So these five steps will do a number of things, they will help you be more confident, they will calm your nerves and the most important...they will impress your guy...leaving him wanting more!
**** Numero Uno: RELAX!!!!! Relaxing your entire body and taking a deep breath will make things way easier. You cannot be unsure of yourself when you are about to kiss the guy you are dating, being tense will only make you more uncomfortable. Just start off slowly...and let it go from there. Don't forget...take a deep breath.
***2. IT'S ALL ABOUT THE MOTION IN THE OCEAN (RHYTHM) LADIES!!!  Please...whatever you do, don't suffocate him by putting your tongue down his throat when you are starting off with a closed mouth kiss. Remember...start off slow. Think of it like this: if you were acting super hyper when someone was acting...calm, you wouldn't be able to connect with each other. Pay lots of attention to his body language and how he is using his tongue to connect with him. key word...CONNECT! LOL And if you decide to change up the pace...do it SLOWLY.
***3. CONTROL YOUR TONGUE!!!! Again...shoving your tongue in his mouth is a big no-no! Who wants to have their first kiss like that? Do it slowly, introduce your tongue to his, and if you cant tell how it is done...follow his lead. Get a little passionate, but don't start crying lol.
***4. CHANGE IT UP!!!! Don't be afraid to explore a little, add a little variety to your make out session. Explore his face...no I'm not saying lick his face like a dog, don't lick his nose, or his eyes or bite him aggressively...that's weird. What I mean is, gently tug his bottom lip or softly nibble on his ear (no don't eat it...NIBBLE...lol, like only if its clean though.) PAY ATTENTION to his body language, he will let you know if he enjoys it.
***5. HANDLE YOUR LIPS WITH CARE. What I mean by this is take care of your lips, I am not saying do a sugar scrub on them everyday or don't go slathering Vaseline on your lips. Just use lip balm before hand, because I know for a fact that some guys don't like glitter or gloss on their lips. A little flavor is cool but go easy on the glitter and gloss, there is nothing worse than a sticky kiss due to that .99 cent beauty store gloss. Dry, cracked lips can interfere with the smoothness of the kiss.
***I know I said 5 but here is one more. MAKE SURE YO BREATH DON'T STANK! PERIOD! GUM, MOUTH WASH, A TOOTH BRUSH, A PEPPER MINT, A HALL (I'M KIDDING)....MAKE SURE YO BREATH IS RIGHT! AND HIS! LOL

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