Men...dress up as women....to be with....hmm... o_O

I have nothing against gay people, I think that it is their decision and everyone has to live their own life. HOWEVER, I was talking with my dad yesterday and the topic came up: why do men do drag or why do men like men if they are only going to dress up like a woman to be with a man? I was watching videos of different men who dress up in drag and then I watched a video about a girl who had two gay men do her makeup and hair like drag makeup. She concluded her video with "it is harder for a woman to dress up in drag and pretend to be a Man pretending to be a woman". It has always kind of confused me on how men act like women. Although in my opinion, women do not act like how gay men portray us. They go all out. A little too flamboyant. However, my point is....your a man, but you want to be a woman....dress up like a woman with clown makeup on and you like men o_O confuses the shit outta me. BUT TO EACH HIS OWN!!!!! Gay men and women are just like everyone else. They live their life. I do not see color or sex as an issue, just curious about things. I had to get that off of my chest.