The skin your in...WORK IT!!!!

I am so sorry I haven't been bloggin as much lately, I just have been a little busy trying to get it right and tight for my birthday. lol Anywhooser, I recently read an article about a young lady who's boyfriend has a nice body and her on the other has...she said she had "racks on racks on racks of fat" and because of that she started shying away from sex. In saying that I mean, she would  only do sex positions that she and her boyfriend could not look at her "racks", in doing that she didn't want to feel like a fat woman smothering her skinny man. Let me tell you this ladies if you have a man who is smaller than you and guys if you are big and your woman is smaller than you, guess what...she/he is still there. Obviously she/he loves you enough to not let something as small as being over weight get to them. You see, America has put out this idea that men and women have to be super skinny and tanned with fake everything. That is NOT true. Being yourself is fine, because no matter what someone will love you, someone will look past imperfections, and someone will give you all the TLC you want. If God wanted everyone to be perfectly perfect then everyone would be. However, He made us all different...different skin, shapes, colors, languages, and different everything because if we were all the same and followed these strict guidelines of perfection...we would be boring. Embrace who you are and love the skin you are in, because nobody can tell you that you aren't good enough. Because to the world...you may be one person...but to one person you may be the world. It isn't possible to enjoy sex when you're so busy playing hide-and-seek the pleasure can't be found. Here's the secret that'll take you from being a spectator who's grimacing at her body to a participant who's experiencing her body: Be a vehicle for pleasure rather than an object to be looked at. That's my fancy way of saying, "Be active in bed." Move around, stroke left, lick right, bend low. The more proactive you are in bed the less reactive you'll be in your mind. It's hard to concentrate on any thought, let alone negative ones, when you're actually doing something you enjoy. Laying too still or waiting for him to make the next move is an invitation to spectatoring. Move so you can go from being a sight to see to a force to be felt. Free up....get loose...and most of all enjoy yourself. If you like it in the downward facing dog position....DO IT! Your man or woman will love you regardless!!!! Love your body...EMBRACE THAT BEAUTIFUL THANG. BECAUSE IT'S YO THANG, DO WHAT YA WANNA DO, I CANT TELL YA WHO TO SOCK IT TO! :-) I <3 YOU, I <3 ME....SO <3 YOURSELF!!!!!